Skincare Expectations vs. Reality
- Trish Brockway
- Sep 9, 2025
- 2 min read
Updated: Sep 9, 2025
Spoiler alert: You’re not waking up with Jennifer Garner skin after 2 days.
Expectation:
You buy a new serum, slather it on, and wake up 36 hours later with glowing, poreless skin that looks like it’s been filtered by God himself.
Reality:
Your skin is still dry. Your pores still exist. But hey, that $48 serum swears it's doing something - probably manifesting results in its spare time. 🙄
Let’s get real: Skincare is not a quick fix. And despite what social media wants you to believe, there’s no “jaw-dropping transformation in 3 days” unless it involves a ring light, a retouching app, and a bit of creative lighting magic.
Skincare Is Like the Gym (But For Your Face)
You don’t expect to see abs after two workouts. So why expect a brand-new face after two days with a new product? Consistency beats magic every time.
So... How Long Does Skincare Actually Take?
Here’s a general idea if you’re using the right products and sticking with them:
Hydration & softness: 3–7 days
Less redness/inflammation: 2–4 weeks
Texture smoothing or fewer breakouts: 4–6 weeks
Dark spot fading or line softening: 8–12 weeks or longer (I know, I know - but I'm all about being real)
Instant miracles: Still not a thing. Sorry.
Things That Do Work (Just Not Overnight):
✅ Products that actually match your skin's needs✅ A consistent routine (even when you're tired and crabby)✅ Not bouncing between 10 different things every week✅ Realistic expectations✅ Patience (annoying but necessary)
Things That Don’t Work (No Matter What Social Media Says):
🚫 A product you only used twice🚫 Side-by-sides with filters and “adjusted” lighting🚫 Buying what worked for someone half your age🚫 Constantly switching routines before giving anything a chance🚫 Expecting overnight results because a 22-year-old influencer said so.
The Bottom Line
Skincare is a slow burn, not a fireworks show - and that’s okay. Your skin doesn’t need a miracle—it just needs a little consistency, the right ingredients, and someone (you) to stop quitting after Day 3.
Because if it really only took a few days to get flawless skin, we’d all be walking around looking like the airbrushed version of ourselves from 2009 Facebook profile pics.
Let your products do their thing. Give it time - and maybe stop comparing your skin to someone who still has their baby fat. Above all, be kind to yourself. Oh...and wear your sunscreen. 💛
💬 Been there? Felt that? Drop a comment - I'd love to know that I'm NOT the only one yelling at my skincare drawer.




