What is Happening to Me and How Do I Get ME Back??
- Trish Brockway
- Aug 17, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: Sep 9, 2025
You Used to Feel Pretty. Now You Just Feel...Invisible.

One day, your skin feels like you. Familiar. Glowy. Effortless. Then—without warning—it turns on you. It’s like a rabid beaver or that best friend in 8th grade who didn’t make the cheerleading team while you did. But that’s a story for another time.
Suddenly, you’re staring into the mirror, wondering, Where the hell did I go? Your face feels dry, tight, and somehow still oily. Your makeup doesn’t sit right. Your jawline looks softer (jowls, anyone?). Your eyes look tired. You’re blotchy, red, flaky, and puffy. Breaking out again for the first time in 20 years? Oh, hell no.
And the worst part?
You don’t recognize yourself anymore. You used to feel confident walking out the door bare-faced. Now? You feel like hiding in the bathroom. You hesitate before stepping into the light or taking a photo. You’re not vain—you just want to feel like yourself again. And right now? You don’t.
The Skin Breakdown No One Warns You About
This isn’t just aging. This is a hormonal shift that no one talks about. It does things to you—inside and out—AT THE SAME DAMN TIME.
Estrogen nosedives → less collagen, less hydration, less bounce.
Testosterone sticks around → surprise acne, clogged pores, oily zones.
Barrier damage → random redness, flaking, stinging from products that never used to bother you.
Inflammation rises → everything feels off; the people you once loved to be around now annoy the absolute crap out of you. Truth time. Am I right?
It’s like your skin is sending an SOS, and nothing in your routine is answering the call. You start second-guessing every product, every ingredient, every damn dollar you’ve spent on skincare. At this point, you're kind of questioning your sanity. I get it.
You’re Not Crazy—Your Products Just Don’t Fit Anymore
You didn’t suddenly forget how to take care of your skin. You’re just using products built for the wrong version of you.
That exfoliator that used to make you glow? Now it burns. That rich cream that once soaked in beautifully? Now it just sits there and pills. On the flip side, that “anti-aging” serum you saw in a magazine ad? Yeah, that one hurts because you suddenly realize they’re talking about your skin now. Ouch.
Your skin changed. Your routine didn’t. No wonder it feels like your face is having a full-on meltdown—and dragging your confidence down with it.
Your Skin Doesn’t Want a Trend - It Wants Relief
Most skincare is built for mass appeal. It’s loaded with every buzzy ingredient the industry can throw in—“just in case” it might help. But your skin doesn’t need noise. It needs relief. And clarity. And ingredients that actually work for you.
That’s why Unfiltered AF does it differently.
You choose your Skin Mood. (Not your skin type. Not your age. The mood your skin is in NOW—dry, irritated, confused, dull, etc.)
We pick the ingredients that match it = The Solution. No BS. No confusion. No fillers.
You’re not expected to play chemist. You’re just asked: What does your skin need today? To calm down? To bounce back? To firm up? To brighten the hell up?
We’ve got it. You pick the vibe. We do the rest.
This Isn’t About “Fixing” Your Face
It’s About Finding You Again. This is skincare that helps you feel seen. Skincare that meets you exactly where you are—no filters, no shame, no anti-aging hype. No BS "OMG I've found the Fountain of Youth" claims so often seen in reels, stories, posts—whatever.
You don’t need to chase perfection. You just want to look in the mirror and think, Oh! There I am! That version of you that felt beautiful without trying? She’s not gone. She’s just been waiting for something that actually works with your skin—not against it.
If You’ve Been Avoiding the Mirror…I See You
You’re not the only one who’s felt embarrassed. Or defeated. Or like your skin betrayed you.
You are not alone—and you’re *not stuck like this.* Unfiltered AF exists for this exact moment in your life—the moment where your reflection feels off and you’re ready to do something about it. This isn’t skincare for 25-year-olds on TikTok. This is skincare for women who’ve lived some life and want their skin to support that—not sabotage it.
The Power of Personalized Skincare
Let’s talk about the magic of personalized skincare. You deserve products that understand your unique needs. It’s not just about slapping on some cream and hoping for the best. Nope! It’s about crafting a routine that speaks to your skin’s current mood.
Imagine waking up, looking in the mirror, and seeing a reflection that feels like you again. That’s the goal. No more guesswork. Just pure, unfiltered joy.
Embrace the Journey
Skincare is a journey, not a race. It’s about finding what works for you, embracing the changes, and celebrating every step. You might have days when your skin throws a tantrum, but that’s okay. You’re learning. You’re growing. And you’re reclaiming your confidence.
So, let’s ditch the one-size-fits-all approach. You deserve better. You deserve skincare that gets you.
💥 You ready? Let’s go! Click "take the Skin Mood Quiz" and land on our home page. Take the quiz, figure out what kind of mood your skin is in, and then stay a minute to take a look around.
Questions? Reach out! trish@unfilteredaflife.com You will get answers from ME. Not an AI bot, assistant (I wish! 🤣), or anyone—just me. That's my promise to you.
